memoir: not liking to be tossed into a Student Bucket

memoir: not liking to be tossed into a Student Bucket

We should probably try to cut some words in editing, but this is OK
draft material, and I think I'm seeing the transition sentences to
string the parts together.

Perhaps another draft pass should play up the analogy between student
dysphoria and gender dysphoria: I can't expect people to have read the
link.