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diff --git a/content/drafts/sexual-dimorphism-in-the-sequences-in-relation-to-my-gender-problems.md b/content/drafts/sexual-dimorphism-in-the-sequences-in-relation-to-my-gender-problems.md
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 (I mean, the beautiful pure sacred self-identity thing is much harder to talk about _clearly_, but talking about it _un_-clearly is less shameful and requires much less bravery)
 
-—are immediately provided with "Oh, that means you're not a cis boy; you're a trans girl" as the definitive explanation. But it was a different time, then. Of course I had _heard of_ transsexualism as a thing, in the form of the "woman trapped in a man's body" trope, but, like drugs and sex, it wasn't salient to me as something that actually happens in real life, rather than on television. The idea that I might somehow _literally_ be a woman in some unspecified psychological sense, was simply not in my conceptspace. I knew I was a boy _because_ boys are the ones with penises. That's what the word _means_. I was a boy who had a weird _sex fantasy_ about being a girl. (Where "girls" are the ones with a vagina, breasts, _&c._)
+—are immediately provided with "Oh, that means you're not a cis boy; you're a trans girl" as the definitive explanation. But it was a different time, then. Of course I had _heard of_ transsexualism as a thing, in the form of the "woman trapped in a man's body" trope, but it wasn't something I expected to actually encounter in real life.
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+At the time, I had _no reason to invent the hypothesis_ that I might somehow _literally_ be a woman in some unspecified psychological sense. I knew I was a boy _because_ boys are the ones with penises. That's what the word _means_. I was a boy who had a weird _sex fantasy_ about being a girl. That was just the obvious ordinary straightforward plain-language description of the situation.
 
 That brings me to the other thing I need to explain about my teenage years, which is that I became very passionate about—well, in retrospect I call it _psychological-sex-differences denialism_, but at the time I called it _antisexism_. Where sometimes people in the culture would make claims about how women and men are psychologically different, and of course I knew this was _bad and wrong_.
 
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 [section: some sort of causal relationship between self-identity and erotic thing, but I assumed it was just my weird thing, not "trans", which I had heard of; never had any reason to formulate the hypothesis, "dysphoria"]
 
 [section: another thing about me: my psychological sex differences denialism]

diff --git a/notes/i-tell-myself-notes.txt b/notes/i-tell-myself-notes.txt
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 _everyone else shot first_, and I'm _correct on the merits_
 
 competence forcing conclusions: http://www.sl4.org/archive/0602/13903.html
+https://archive.is/nb5rH
 
 analogy to school
 

diff --git a/notes/post_ideas.txt b/notes/post_ideas.txt
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@@ -92,7 +92,7 @@ _ On Being Stereotyped Badly (working title)
 Angelic Irony
 
 Memetics vs. Discourse
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+Being Willing to Change Your Mind Is About Symmetry, Not Fairness
 Honesty Is Activism
 The Motte-and-Bailey Doctrine as Compression Artifact
 

diff --git a/notes/sexual-dimorphism-in-the-sequences-notes.md b/notes/sexual-dimorphism-in-the-sequences-notes.md
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 ([Amanda Marcotte](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amanda_Marcotte) once described one of my comments as "cute"! It ... was not a compliment.)
 
-_Feminist Interpretations of Ayn Rand_
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+_Feminist Interpretations of Ayn Rand_
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+, like drugs and sex, it wasn't salient to me as something that actually happens in real life, rather than on television
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+(Where "girls" are the ones with a vagina, breasts, _&c._)